I want to talk to you today about the lies of imperfection. We live in a world that often tells us we need to be perfect, that we need to have it all together, that we need to look a certain way, or act a certain way, in order to be accepted and valued. But the truth is, this is all a lie.
The truth is, imperfection is what makes us human. Imperfection is what makes us unique, and it’s what makes us interesting. It’s what gives us our own stories to tell and our own experiences to share. It’s what makes us relatable to others, and it’s what allows us to connect with others on a deeper level.
So why do we buy into this lie that we need to be perfect? Why do we beat ourselves up when we make mistakes or fall short of our own expectations? The truth is, no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has flaws, everyone has things they wish they could change about themselves.
But here’s the thing: it’s okay to be imperfect. It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to not have it all together. What’s not okay is beating yourself up for these things, or letting them hold you back from achieving your goals and dreams.
Instead of striving for perfection, strive for progress. Focus on improving yourself a little bit every day, and celebrate your successes along the way. Remember that there is no such thing as perfect, and that imperfection is what makes us who we are.
Believe in yourself, and believe in your ability to achieve your goals and dreams, even if you’re not perfect. Remember that your imperfections are what make you unique, and that they are what make you valuable. So embrace them, and use them to your advantage.
You are capable of amazing things, and you don’t need to be perfect to achieve them. So go out there and be yourself, flaws and all. The world needs more people like you, just the way you are!
Dr. Linda Lou Murray